Family Law in Nevada : Nevada Family Lawyer & Attorney : Beck Pingel Law Firm : Divorce, Child Support : Las Vegas, Henderson NV

Even though your marriage is coming to an end, your responsibilities as a parent are not.  In fact, your job as a parent will inevitably require a greater measure of effort on your part as you coordinate the parenting of your child or children with an ex-spouse.  Nevada's COPE class is aimed at helping you begin this process of co-parenting. 

Nevada law requires both parents in a divorce with children or any other child custody proceeding to attend the COPE class within 45 days of filing of the complaint.   The Cope class is a little over 3 hours long and emphasizes each parent's responsibility to continue to provide a nurturing, comfortable environment for children to live in despite the unavoidable effects of a divorce.  Each of these court-mandated seminars covers the different ways children react during the transition of a divorce, parenting approaches that will benefit children, and the roles other adults and relatives may play in the child's life, among other topics.  It costs $40 to attend the seminar and you must provide the Court with a certification of completion of the Cope class.

Admittedly, many of my clients have felt that the Cope class was a waste of time and didn't offer them any new guidance or help.  That said, I believe it is a good requirement for parties to family court proceedings involving children.  Whether the class is an actual benefit to your parenting plans or not, let the mandatory attendance serve as a reminder of the importance of the best interests of your child.  The guidepost for the Judge in your child custody matter is the best interests of your child and it should be yours as well.  Although you may not desire any further relationship with the other parent, your child needs every opportunity to have a valuable relationship with both parents.  Sometimes this may mean giving up a portion of your custody or visitation that you may not want to.  Almost always, this will mean maintaining a polite and cooperative relationship with the other parent.

So when you attend that Cope class, let those 3+ hours be a time of reflection on what you are going to do so that your child can have a meaningful relationship with both of his or her parents, as well as what you will do to help your child deal with the effects of divorce.

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Nevada is known for the short amount of time it takes to get a divorce.  You only have to be domiciled (to live) in Nevada for six (6) weeks in order for the state of Nevada to have jurisdiction over your divorce.  However, this doesn't guarantee your divorce will be a quick affair.  Your preparation for your divorce is an important part of making the divorce process as swift as possible.

Recent changes to the Rules of Civil Procedure in Nevada better enable you to move your divorce along at a quicker pace.  NRCP 16.2 provides a new framework for the early organization and management of family law matters through a Case Management Conference with the Judge, the parties to the divorce, and their attorneys.  The Case Management Conference gets the parties in front of the Judge within 60 days of the filing of the answer to the complaint, and allows for the discussion of what it is going to take to resolve the matter.  Child Custody and Support matters can be assessed and a plan put into place for the discovery and resolution of these issues.  Likewise, other issues such as alimony and asset/debt division can be analyzed and properly consolidated or even resolved.

It is important that you and your attorney be prepared to provide the Judge with the information necessary to resolve as many issues as possible at the Case Management Conference.  It is important that you have the required, completed financial disclosure form and your Initial disclosures of all witnesses and documents supporting your case.  Additionally, you and your attorney should have already discussed the discovery you believe will be necessary, and any other issues you believe need to be resolved in your divorce.  By compiling this information and conducting this analysis prior to the Case Management Conference, you will enable the Judge and the attorneys to speed up the litigation of your case, and in turn, reduce the costs of your divorce in Nevada.

I recently attended a meeting of family law judges and attorneys where most of the family law judges were willing to hold the Case Management Conference as early in the case as possible.  Some suggested that the Case Management Conference can be combined with any preliminary motion hearings.  Clearly, family law judges are interested in getting as many issues as possible resolved as quickly as possible.  If you are prepared to do so you divorce will be a much quicker process.

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Everyone is feeling the effects of the current recession, and going through a divorce can be a strain on your finances that are already feeling the pinch. One potential option for saving costs and attorney fees as you go through your family law dispute is the Senior Judge Settlement Conference.

In the most recent edition of the Nevada Family Law Report, we are treated to a viewpoint analysis of the Senior Judge Settlement Conference. Jason Stoffel, Esq. presents the attorney's viewpoint, while Senior District Judge Terrance P. Marren gives us the judge's view. The consensus between both commentators is that participation in a Senior Judge Settlement Conference saves time, money, and preserves relationships between the parties to a family law dispute - an important consideration since you will, in most cases, need to be able to continue to communicate with your former spouse after your legal dispute has ended.

During these settlement conferences, the attorney and the judge take a back seat in the process of resolving a family law dispute, and the parties to the dispute are in control. As Judge Marren stated,

The clients are in charge in that they must agree to the terms of settlement. The clients are the stars; the lawyers and settlement judge are there as the supporting cast.  The rule of confidentiality (nothing may be disclosed from the settlement conference unless settlement is reached) means the settlement judge may discuss the issues of the case with the parties openly and fully.  Settlement offers may even be discussed with the settlement judge during the conference or in private session. I have been amazed at how comfortable the clients are in discussing the details of their case in the presence of the settlement judge. They even get to express, either in group session or privately with the settlement judge, those things you don’t want them to say in open court.

With senior judges conducting these settlement conferences, parties to a family law dispute have the benefit of an actual judge talking to them about their positions in a case and whether they are likely to succeed with such positions.  

If you are looking for way to reduce the expense of litigation, the Senior Judge Settlement Conference is a great avenue to consider.  The Family Division has a "marathon" of these settlement conferences scheduled for January 11, 2010 through February 16, 2010.  The conferences occur during a three hour block in the morning or afternoon.

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Do you tweet? Facebook? Youtube or myspace? These social networking sites have subscriber's numbering in hundreds of millions, and 2009 saw major growth in the use of these sites. Earlier this year, Time magazine included an article on "Five Facebook No-No's for Divorcing Couples" and as more and more people join Facebook and other social networking websites, these No-No's become more and more important to avoid because you don't know who will be reading the things you post.

If you are going through a divorce or preparing to go through a divorce, you are going to want to avoid the following:

• Showing off - Pictures or discussions of new purchases or vacations are fun, but they might color the court's view of your finances and affect your settlement.
• Letting it all hang out - If you're in a custody battle, your ex's lawyers would love to present you as the nonnurturing type. Delete all the crazy party photos.
• Getting tagged - IIt's not just your page you have to worry about. Make sure your friends' photos of you can't be used against you either.
• Venting - Don't talk smack about the lawyers, the judge and especially your spouse — on your page or anybody else's. (You think your kids never use a computer?)
• Cutting off everyone at once - Don't "defriend" in-laws or your ex's friends right away. People need time to adjust. Unless it's really high-conflict. Then go for it.

As you embark upon a divorce or other family law litigation, or any litigation for that matter, it is important that you check your social networking habits and make sure you aren't sabotaging your case. There is a good chance your judge, spouse, and the opposing attorney will be checking your posts.

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